Please help me, how do i help out my friend, or should i avoid her, like she did me, please read?

it sounds like she had a really rough childhood. if you have feelings for her or just like having her around, i would try to help her if i were you. it must be hard for her. i wouldn't take too personally that she didn't respond to your texts. it sounds like she should get the hell away from her abusive boyfriend. if you offer her a place to stay (at your house maybe) she would be a lot happier. (i know this is a lot to ask from you), but that way at least she could find a job and then be your roommate. as she makes enough money she could pay half of your rent.